Sometimes bad things happen and life throws you a curveball.  Something happens that you just didn’t see coming and leave you feeling filled with terror.  You wonder how you’re going to survive this and all you want to do is run away and hide.  Or maybe the opposite.  Maybe it triggers something inside you that puts you in “fight” mode and you’re just filled with anger.  Either way, you are having a trauma response and your body is responding in exactly the way we expect it to.

But now you’ve tired of feeling this way.  The stressful situation that initially threw you off is over now.  Logically, you know you are safe now.  But you still don’t feel like yourself. You’re jumpy most of the time.  Horrible memories come up out of nowhere and it’s like your right back in that traumatic moment.  Sometimes something you see out of the corner of your eye or some new story can cause you a moment of panic and leave you feeling “off.”  Each day you have to find the energy just to make it through the day.

What Counts as Trauma?

You may be wondering if what you went through even counts as “trauma.”  You know it was stressful, but you may tell yourself, “Others have been through worse.” The truth is that you wonder why you can’t just “move on” already.

While people often think of war and rape as being traumatic, there are many types of stressful events your brain may experience as being traumatic.  Essentially, trauma is any experience that overwhelms your ability to cope and causes you to feel shock, for horror, terror, helplessness and/or hopelessness. 

Direct Trauma: When something happens to you personally

Direct trauma refers to any extremely stressful experience that happens directly to you. There are many different types of direct trauma.  You may experience a one time trauma directly such as a house fire, natural disaster, accident, incident of assault or robbery.  On the other hand, some people experience long-term, developmental trauma: physical, verbal, emotional, sexual abuse in childhood, or domestic violence where you feel unsafe in your romantic relationships.  This type of extended trauma that happens over a longer period of time often leads to what professionals call complex PTSD.  Additionally, some deaths can be traumatic for survivors. Some people also experience ptsd symptoms due to traumatic grief after the loss of a loved one to suicide, homicide, or even witnessing a person die by heart attack. 

Lastly, you can be traumatized by traumatic situations you’ve witnessed such as a child witnessing parents feuding, a parent who struggled with substance abuse with drinking or taking drugs, or taking care of someone with a long-term illness. 

Indirect Trauma: When you are impacted by someone else’s trauma

Indirect trauma is when you are impacted by someone else’s traumatic experience.  As human beings, we are caring creatures.  Therefore, it makes sense that you empathize with the pain of others.  When someone else hurts, you may hurt too.  There are many different ways you can experience indirect trauma.  For instance, a mom may be traumatised hearing about a terrible car accident her adult child was in.  Perhaps you find yourself double and triple checking the locks on your door after hearing about a burglary a few miles away.  Sometimes, a person is even impacted by a trauma that happened in the larger community.  For instance, you may feel on edge after watching news coverage of a terrible terrorist attack.

Secondary or Vicarious Trauma in the Helping Professions

Indirect trauma is often referred to as secondary trauma or vicarious trauma.  Helping professionals such as counsellors, social workers, nurses or doctors see the pain of others on a daily basis.  Occasionally, the pain they witness in others may leave a lasting impact on the most seasoned professional.  This can lead to burnout or compassion fatigue.  Treating this secondary trauma can be key to helping professionals resolve their own emotional responses so they can enjoy their jobs.  In addition to treating direct trauma, I also offer specialised counselling for stress and burnout that may be a fit.  Just because you are feeling discouraged and dreading work right now doesn’t mean you hate your job.  Rather, you are likely experiencing compassion fatigue due to secondary trauma. I would love to help you get back to loving your job.

Trauma can be hard for the brain to process

Traumatic experiences are so far out of what your brain considers to be “normal” that it can be hard to make sense of the thoughts, feelings and sensations that come up during and after the actual traumatic event. Whether you directed experienced the traumatic experience or are experiencing second trauma, these experiences can be deeply traumatising. They leave a vivid, unshakeable mark in your memory for a very long time. Trauma can come from many different parts of your life, but the common experience is that you core assumptions about yourself, other people and the world around you are challenged.  Your sense of security is threatened.  Your brain holds onto the terrible experience trying to make sense of exactly what happened and figure out out how it fits in with everything else you know about the world.  The most stressful situations in a person’s life area often difficult to process without professional help.

What is Trauma Therapy?

Trauma Therapy addresses trauma that is current in your life or from the past.  We may talk about a stressful situation that happened long ago, perhaps even in childhood.  On the other hand, the trauma you need to process may be a single incident such as a recent rape.  Trauma therapy can even address long term, chronic trauma you experienced over a period of time. 

Will My Trauma Symptoms Just Go Away?

Sometimes, trauma symptoms do go away on their own.  However, it’s also very possible that they will get worse.  In fact, not tending to your trauma can lead things getting worse.  All of those feelings of fear, shock and horror may fester inside you. Eventually, these trauma symptoms can manifest into many physical problems as well as emotional problems.

Symptoms of PTSD

Not everyone who experiences a traumatic event develops PTSD.  However, PTSD is very common.  If you trauma reactions are left untreated, you may develop symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  These symptoms can include:

  • Recurrent and intrusive thoughts or memories of the event.
  • Nightmares or difficulty falling asleep
  • Feeling like the stressful situation is happening all over again (flashbacks)
  • Feeling really triggered or anxious when you are reminded of the traumatic situation. This may even include physical reactions like quick breathing or sweating.
  • Avoiding upsetting memories, thoughts or feelings related to the traumatic event
  • Negative thoughts about yourself, others or the world around you
  • Difficulty remembering some parts of what happened to you
  • Intense feelings of fear, anger, guilt or shame
  • Getting angry more easily than usual
  • Reckless or self-destructive behavior
  • Feeling always on edge and/or easily startled
  • Difficulty concentrating

What to Expect in Trauma Therapy

The first thing to know is that our trauma counselling sessions will be a safe space. You will not be forced to say or do something you are not comfortable with.  Some people enter counselling ready to speak about the trauma in detail and others need time to develop a relationship with me and gain skills to manage the intense emotions that can come up in trauma therapy.

Building Strength & Resilience

An important component of trauma therapy or PTSD treatment is to help you build your own strength and sense of resilience.  What you went through left you feeling less confident, less sure of yourself and more afraid than you used to be.  You’ll have the opportunity to rediscover your own personal strength through our work together.  You may learn specific, new coping skills you can use in future stressful situations.  Through processing your emotions, you’ll develop new insights about yourself, your relationships and how you as an individual relate to the world.  In trauma therapy, we do more than focus on your past experience.  We also explore your present situation and how you can relate to the world differently in the future.  Therefore, you’ll leave counselling better able to face whatever comes up in the next chapter of your life.

Trauma-Informed Counselling 

My counselling practice is a trauma-informed practice. This means that I am a trauma-sensitive therapist and I am careful to help you work at your own pace.  I want to build a sense of trust and safety in our relationship and will not force you to share things you are not ready to share.  In fact, many of my clients benefit from first using creative interventions such as Dramatherapy to work through past traumatic experiences without telling the story directly.  Through Dramatherapy for instance, you have a chance to reframe your story in an indirect way.  This type of indirect trauma work can be a cathartic experience that helps bring healing to your mind and body.  You’re able to reframe the narrative of your own trauma story without some of the intensity you may experience in traditional talk therapy.

Who Benefits from Trauma Therapy

Anyone who has experienced something stressful, recently or in the distance past, that overwhelmed their ability to cope can benefit from trauma therapy or PTSD treatment.  I have helped individuals from all walks of life who have been impacted by trauma and are ready to move forward.  I take a flexible, empowering approach to help meet your individual needs.

 Trauma Therapy helps address:

  • Anxiety & Depression
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Nightmares or Insomnia
  • Self Doubt, Insecurity & Fear

Trauma Therapy helps you:

  • Feel like yourself again
  • Live more confidently
  • Move forward in the areas most important to you

Heal, Grow and Flourish with Trauma Therapy 

Case Study – Darren’s Trauma Therapy Story

Darren is a man in his twenties who begantherapy after coming out of rehab for drug and alcohol abuse. Darren experimented with drugs in his teens, however, his addiction grew stronger after leaving school when he lost touch with his friends. Eventually, Darren hit rock bottom after being contacted by his father who had been absent for most of his life. Overwhelmed and unable to cope with his emotions, Darren overdosed on drugs which nearly cost him his life. Darren sought help when life was getting out of control.


 Darren has tried individual counselling before.  In fact, he has tried various therapy groups at school including anger management and art therapy. This helped him deal with his anger and hostility towards his teachers and peers. But he still struggled with symptoms of PTSD.  Now, Darren came to counseling to work with a trauma specialist.  We chose to use creative interventions to express his feelings and work through his past trauma, because of his previous experiences using art in therapy. In the sessions, Darren had the freedom to create art work and stories about his situation. Working in this way felt safer for Darren.

After some time, Darren developed a greater ability to reflect on his own experiences and courage to speak directly about his past and how growing up without his father had affected him. Working in therapy helped Darren realise the impact his father’s absence had on his self-esteem and self-worth. He grew to understand that his experience of neglect and abandonment traumatised him for several years, and that he found it difficult to trust people because he didn’t want to grow attached to anyone in case he felt hurt by them. Darren finally understood why he used drugs and alcohol to cope with his experience of childhood trauma.

Darren’s commitment to recovery has helped turn his life around. Since seeking ongoing support Darren stayed clean without relapsing. Darren is now feeling less fearful and more open to welcoming a relationship with his father as an adult.

Just like Darren, Trauma Therapy can help you:

  • Develop greater self-awareness
  • Gain insight into your thoughts, feelings and behaviour
  • Recover from childhood trauma and make peace with your past
  • Learn healthier and safer ways of coping

*Please note: The name and details have been changed and altered to protect the client’s identity. The photograph is for illustrative purposes only and does not identify any clients.

Call Today for Trauma and PTSD Treatment in London

You too can recover from your past trauma like Darren did through trauma therapy. I know it can feel scary to reach out and open up. However, you deserve the healing that can come from trauma therapy and PTSD treatment.  If you live in London and are ready to experience a deep level of healing and to feel like yourself, I am here to help. When you are ready to begin, follow these three simple steps:

  1. Schedule your free, 30-minute phone consultation.
  2. Work with a skilled trauma counsellor.
  3. Find a new sense of healing, confidence & wholeness.

Other Services Available at YTherapy

At YTherapy, I provide help for a variety of mental health issues at my counselling offices in Angel and Farringdon, Central London. I enjoy helping individuals from all walks of life, including: first responders, other counsellors and therapists, and healthcare professionals.  Whether you are dealing with trauma or PTSD, stress and burnout,  relationship problems or just about any other mental health concern, I would love to assist you in being the very best version of yourself! Contact me today to schedule a free call and begin to reach your fullest potential.